A misstep may turn out to be a stepping stone for success, a step in the right direction. A mistake may lead you to have better ‘takes’ next time. A misunderstanding may give you the opportunity to gain better understanding. You never know where things can...

Do you ever get furious?  Get furious and you're only adding fuel to the fire.  So, calm your fury and try this alternative instead, get curious. Get curious about a) your feelings and reactions, b) other people's opinions and behaviour, and c) the positive possibilities in...

What's the best advice you've ever received? Here's another question: why do we so often and so easily turn to others for advice? The best person to take advice from is yourself. You know yourself and your situation the best, and only you know what's...

You've heard the saying, "When you point one finger at someone, there are three fingers pointing right back at you."  When we point at another’s shortcomings and wrong doings, and blame the other person, the three fingers pointing back at us remind us to look...

Every so often, life presents us with a tall order - a situation that seems so difficult & one that occupies our mind so completely that we just can't see over or around it. Next time you come across one of life's tall orders, try...

Life isn't always fair, but moaning about it isn't really going to help or change anything.  So you may as well stop.  How? Every time you have a moan, make yourself offer a solution or do something about the situation. If you can't...

What's good people, When something goes wrong, it's all too easy to blame just about everybody & everything. But instead of playing the blame game, use your time & energy to fix the situation. Then figure out what went wrong &...